And now about events . . . and transitions!
Since transitions seem to be almost minute by minute, I wanted to
write again about that topic. Bridges’
work is based on organizational change, while another of my favorite transition
models (Schlossberg’s Transition Theory) works best for individuals.
I have experienced significant “aha” moments with both Bridges and
Schlossberg. I know I know – others
might have grasped these thoughts intuitively.
For me, how Schlossberg describes “events” and “non events” and their
impact was a light bulb moment for me.
Schlossberg talks about transitions in relation to events – things
that we expect to happen and do happen.
In other words, they are transitions
from events that occur predictably. For example, graduating college, getting a job, marrying,
having children, getting promotions, and such.
There are also unanticipated events that lead to
transitions. These unanticipated events are
not predictable or scheduled, such as divorce or job loss.
But she also talks about transitions related to “non events” which
are those things we expect to happen but do not – such as not getting married,
not getting a promotion and so on. In other words, non event transitions
are expected but do not occur, such as failure to be admitted to medical school.
These non events may be related to individual aspiration or a ripple (due to
someone else or another event).
What
is a transition? According to
Schlossberg it is trigger by an event or non event that results in changed
relationships, routines, assumptions, and roles. While I gave some examples
above, Schlossberg notes that the individual experiencing a transition
perceives the trigger to be an event or non event. It is indeed all in the eyes of the
beholder!
Ok
all of this sounds a bit theoretical (but I did say it was a theory
right?)
When
I thought about it, though, I realized that non events have had a major impact
on my career. In fact, I would probably
say that, in some ways, non events triggered most of my major career decisions.
What
about you? What is the relationship
between event and non events in your career?
Thoughts by Dr. Connie